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The Humble Pie
Trauma Recovery Coaching That Meets You Where You Are
I’m Jane Davidson, a certified trauma recovery coach and trauma-informed educator based in Santa Fe, New Mexico. I work with adults who were taught to be strong instead of supported,
reasonable instead of real, and grateful instead of honest.
If you have carried too much for too long, The Humble Pie is our place to begin again with honesty, softness, and a nervous system that no longer has to apologize. I offer online trauma recovery coaching and a free 30-minute consult so you can see if working together feels right.
The Humble Pie Philosophy
The Humble Pie isn’t about self-improvement. It’s about self-return.
It’s the lifelong work of remembering who you were before fear, conditioning, and survival shaped you into someone smaller than your truth. This space explores humility as clarity, boundaries as compassion, and healing as the act of coming home to yourself.
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The Humble Pie Philosophy
Remembering
the Original Self
You Were Never the Problem
The Humble Pie begins with the truth that your original self, the curious one, the intuitive one, the unashamed one, is still intact. This work is not about becoming someone new. It’s about remembering the person
you were before fear and performance
rewrote your reflection.
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Seeing Yourself Clearly Is the First Act of Care
Humility isn’t about shrinking.
It's about seeing your own patterns without punishment.
When you recognize the moves you learned to stay alive,
something softens. You stop fighting yourself.
You stop performing for others. You begin to understand that honesty doesn’t destroy you, and it frees you.
This is the moment
The Humble Pie begins:
where truth becomes tenderness instead of shame.
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Healing as Integration
The Past Doesn't Disappear, it Organizes Itself
Healing isn’t erasing your history. It’s integrating it. It’s the moment the child-you, parent-you, survivor-you, and present-you finally stop competing and start speaking to one another. That’s when clarity replaces chaos.
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Humility as Self-Accuracy
Humility isn't Shrinking, It's Seeing Clearly
Humility here is not weakness or self-erasure. It’s the courage to see your patterns without collapse, to hold your impact without shame, and to stand in your truth without performing safety for others.
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The Mirror vs. The Mimic
Truth feels Different from Performance
A core part of The Humble Pie is learning to tell the difference between what is real and what is rehearsed
in yourself, in systems, in relationships.
Mirrors awaken us. Mimics drain us.
Your nervous system has always known the difference.
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Living Without the Armor
Unmasking Without Self-Destruction
The Humble Pie teaches you to lay down the armor without becoming exposed. To tell the truth without burning bridges. To be real without collapsing. It’s learning how to live unarmored and still fully protected from the inside out.
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