
The Humble Pie
Trauma Recovery Coaching That Meets You Where You Are
I’m Jane Davidson, a certified trauma recovery coach and trauma-informed educator based in Santa Fe, New Mexico. I work with adults who were taught to be strong instead of supported,
reasonable instead of real, and grateful instead of honest.
If you have carried too much for too long, The Humble Pie is our place to begin again with honesty, softness, and a nervous system that no longer has to apologize. I offer online trauma recovery coaching and a free 30-minute consult so you can see if working together feels right.

The Humble Pie Book Club
Read with curiosity, compassion, and emotional intelligence.
What This Book Club Is
A place to read together with emotional intelligence, curiosity, and compassion.
No pressure. No perfection. Just a real connection.
How It Works
We read slowly and intentionally.
One book a month.
Optional reflection prompts.
Space to think, feel, and connect... not perform.
What we are reading
A story that journeys through silence, survival, and the inherited rules that shape a woman’s life.
It opens conversations about identity, generational expectation, and the courage it takes to claim your own voice.
After you read
A Woman is No Man
Reflection: The Conversation After the Cover Closes
(coming soon)
Once the last page settles, this is the space where we sit with the questions the story raises about silence, strength, identity, and the cost of breaking cycles.
Who This Is For
For anyone who has lived inside tight family narratives, questioned inherited roles, or felt the tension between belonging and becoming themselves.
January Book Selection
What we have read
Preview
Before We Were Yours by Lisa Wingate
A story that opens conversations about identity, belonging, trauma, and reclamation ...themes we explore gently and honestly.
After you read
Before We Were Yours Reflection: The Conversation After the Cover Closes
After the reading comes the meaning-making.
This reflection holds the echoes of the story, the grief, the reclamation, and the threads of identity that rise only when we slow down enough to notice them.
Who This Is For
For anyone who has ever questioned where they come from, who they belong to, or how a family story can hold both love and harm at the same time.