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The Humble Pie
Trauma Recovery Coaching That Meets You Where You Are


Recovering from Karenism: A Trauma-Informed Look at Reactivity, Control, and Healing
Let’s talk about Karen.
You know her. We all do. She’s the one losing it in the grocery store, demanding a manager over nothing, calling the cops on kids selling lemonade, spiraling over a mask policy. She’s reactive, entitled, and exhausting to be around.
4 min read


Living Out Loud: What It Really Looks Like After Healing
Explore what it means to live out loud in recovery, moving from quiet inner work to everyday choices that reflect who you are now, without performing your healing.
4 min read


Letting Grief Be Sacred: When Sadness Means Something Mattered
Explore what it means to let grief be sacred, why loss doesn’t mean you chose wrong, and how honoring sadness can become part of your recovery.
4 min read


Choosing Ourselves (Without Becoming the Villain): What It Really Means in Recovery
Explore what it really means to start choosing ourselves in recovery, why it feels so uncomfortable at first, and how to do it without abandoning your values.
4 min read


Repair Without Erasure: How To Be Accountable Without Self Annihilation
Learn what it means to repair without erasure, take responsibility for harm, and stay human in the process, without collapsing into shame or rewriting the past.
4 min read


The Cost of Shrinking: What Happens When You Make Yourself Small
Explore the cost of shrinking yourself to keep the peace, why this pattern once kept you safe, and how awareness can help you stop disappearing from your own life.
3 min read
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