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The Humble Pie
Trauma Recovery Coaching That Meets You Where You Are
I'm Jane Davidson, a certified trauma recovery coach and trauma-informed educator based in Santa Fe, New Mexico. I work with adults who were taught to be strong instead of supported, reasonable instead of real, and grateful instead of honest.
If you have carried too much for too long, The Humble Pie is our place to begin again with honesty, softness, and a nervous system that no longer has to apologize. Whether you're looking for a community built on recognition or one-on-one support built around your story, there's a place for you here.
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Join date: Dec 5, 2020
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Jul 19, 2026 ∙ 4 min
What Grief Does When It Has Nowhere to Go: Unprocessed Grief Doesn't Disappear
My father started telling the same story around sixty. Not a rotation of stories, one story, told with the exact same words, the exact same pauses, like a groove worn into a record. He was a child. He was left behind. Somehow, every conversation found its way back there.
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Jul 12, 2026 ∙ 3 min
The Fix Is the Wound: Recognition in Trauma Recovery
Think of something someone made you do because it was good for you.
Not something you wanted. Something they were certain about.
Maybe it was a certain food. Maybe it was a church. Maybe it was a conversation you were supposed to have or an apology you were supposed to mean or a book someone handed you with that look on their face, the one that said this will help you, and what you heard was you need fixing.
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Jul 5, 2026 ∙ 3 min
The Day That Asks How Much You Loved: On Grief, Independence, and the Fourth of July
I have never once slept in on the Fourth of July. My body wakes up early on this day the way it wakes up early before bad news, before it's said anything to me yet. There's a smell that comes with it, charcoal starting somewhere, a flag snapping against a pole, and my stomach drops before my brain catches up with why.
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